The parents of the kids who died in the house blaze which they are now arrested for, how is it that they can have kids and then there are people out in the world who try to no avail, how is it fair? I have come to think that in the world maybe some people should just not be allowed to have children. Maybe there should be an exam to pass, a test to sit before your allowed to procreate. Do you ever sit back and think ‘Am I a good candidate to have kids?’ whether you’re up to the ever demanding life of motherhood. There’s no degree in mastering child rearing and bearing, having children is free, there are no stipulations but does that mean everyone should be allowed to have children here there and everywhere?
“Are some people just too selfish or too uneducated to be allowed to parent?”
Having kid’s is life changing, it’s demanding, it’s revolving your life around someone else not yourself. When having kids you become second best for the rest of your life and your needs are put aside as some little person now comes first. Is everyone capable of being so selfless? Or are some people just too selfish or too uneducated to be allowed to parent? You may think I am being harsh but I bet at some point you have thought exactly the same.
Some people have children without thought, they pop them out like they change their underwear. If you were earning a low wage why would you have 6 kids, why would you put yourself under the strain to constantly struggle and make the benefit system and the tax payers pay for your lack of birth control or your pure stupidity! People who pop kids out and continue to say it was an accident are more stupid than anything because birth control is so simple to use and not using it just shows a lack of brain cells and thought. Maybe some people are just thoughtless but should thoughtless people really be allowed kids?
People should be vetted and their should be criteria to fill so not any tom dick or harry can just have kids. I say this because so many kids are brought into the world by parents who are frankly incapable of being a good parent. The amount in the press where parents are shooting their kids, killing their children by setting fires, kidnapping their own kids for money or skipping the country to leave their kids to the system to look after makes me sick and makes me think these people should have their tubes tied.
Child abuse is rife and too many times people who have abused their children and get them taken away go on to have more, how is this allowed? I reckon once you abuse a child that it’s and you should be disqualified from child-bearing. Abusing a child who looks after you to look after them is diabolical, it shows that you’re the type of person that deserve’s nothing, especially not a childs unconditional love.
Now the point of my rant is; just be prepared for kids and don’t just have them because you want something to play with. My point is that people are too freely having children without real thought about what will happen when they arrive. Too many people who treat their kids untoward continue to have more kids, is that really okay? should people who hurt kids, treat them badly or neglect them, should they not be stopped from having kids? In my mind yes they should, whether you agree or not is your opinion.
Children are for life not just for christmas.